One thing that can be very annoying to any lady is when she is trying to keep the relationship but the guy is not even interested. This is the reason most women need to learn new tactics on how to get the man to pay more attention to the relationship, get him back.
First of all a woman should stop showing that all her world revolves around the man she loves. The issue of getting him back should not preoccupy you night and day, because this is the major mistake most women make.
Instead just spend the time and effort in making a better life for you. Get out and do some shopping, buy new clothes, and get a new look.
A lady should begin to value herself more, spoil herself and forget living for someone else; in the name of ex. It will help to see things differently and have a new mindset.
Be more confident and independent minded, no more leaning on the views and whims of the man you love. As you begin to have a life of your own again, joy will be written all over you. You will be able to face the world with a better and positive outlook. This will make your ex notice and admire your newfound independence which will make him want to be with you for good.
Learn to keep yourself busy by joining friends to go out or do things together. You will have to just think of yourself first before anything else, so do only what you find pleasurable. When you begin to put your own feelings first and just carrying on as if nothing happened, he will be jolted into reality. He will begin to see things differently. Of course he will start noticing some new qualities in you that he had never noticed before and this will really keep him guessing.
This is the time to make yourself scarce so that he will be the one combing everywhere in trying to find you. Amazing, this is what you have been trying to achieve the entire time.
Wonder of all wonders is that he will eventually find his way back without you lifting another finger; but this time it will be on different terms.
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