If your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seems more interested in going out and spending time with you than before, or if you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, then it’s okay to be a little hopeful but you need to avoid jumping the gun. I’m sure you are soon wondering if your ex really wants to start up the romance again.
There are some definite common signs that your ex wants to get things going again. Even if you really want to get back together, do not go for it head over heels. The best way to play things is to play hard to get (in moderation), which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway. If you don’t give any resistance at all and just go at it full force, your ex will probably get freaked out and back out again. If you have been playing hard to get, it usually will drum up more interest on your ex’s part and he or she will want you back even more.
Usually both people feel some sort of longing for the other person after ending a relationship. Your ex is probably going to miss you no matter what, because of how many memories were shared together during this period of time. If you are wondering “does my ex want to get back with me” the odds are that your ex may be thinking the same thing for the same reasons.
Sometimes when an ex shows interest again following a break up however, it is only a game. They may think that you still have strong feelings for them, and all they want is some attention, without any real commitment to the relationship. So, unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time with you, they may just be passing the time because they have no other prospects on the horizon.
It’s better to get a feel for the situation before you act. Don’t go jumping right back into the relationship so you have time to decide if your ex is genuine or not, and you’ll be fine.
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