Do you know what charm is?
Most people don’t.
Most men think bragging ad nauseam about their accomplishments, about all the interesting places they’ve been, and about girls they’ve conquered is charming.
This has nothing to do with charm. If anything, it’s anti charm.
A lot of females complain endlessly about all the things that go wrong in their life to their friends and male suitors. Instead of attracting people, it repels them. If they feel a need to complain, they should save it for their psychiatrist.
What does it mean to be a charmer?
Charmers are consummate manipulators and often times sociopaths.
However, most people are so worried about themselves that they cannot discern when the charmer is manipulating them.
There’s something else that blinds us from knowing when the charmer is taking advantage of us.
There’s a misconception in our culture that manipulators and sociopaths lack the ability to empathize.
On the contrary, manipulators and sociopaths are masters at empathizing.
To empathize means to understand where the other person is coming from. It means to know what it’s like to walk in the other person’s boots.
Although many charmers are devoid of any sympathy, they are great at demonstrating empathy. This is what makes them so deadly.
While most people are only concerned with themselves, the charmer makes the other person feel that he understands them.
He does not care about being the center of attention. Instead he let’s others be the star and have the spot light.
By doing this he’s playing on people’s biggest weaknesses: their ego, vanity, and self-esteem.
As soon as they drop their defenses and become dependent on him, he goes in for the kill and manipulates them.
I am not suggesting you take advantage of people or mutate into a sick and twisted Sith lord.
However, there are many lessons to glean from studying the charmer. If you put your oversize ego aside and allow women to shine, they’ll become your loyal slaves. They’ll depend on you for validation
In no time, they’ll be buying you dinner and driving you around.
Here’s your homework:
Think about the kinda of people you like.
These are people who like you and make you feel like a superstar.
That’s how you want to make women feel.
Why? Because when we like a person, we are willing to go out of our way for him.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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