I know that you’re probably frantic looking for a way to get your husband to come back to you. You are doing everything in your power to keep your husband from becoming your “ex husband” and I can’t blame you! Do what you have to do to get through this!
When it comes to the amount of stress, divorces and breakups in general are about as stressful as actually having your partner die. The devastation and the heart wretching emotions that a divorce brings into your life is close to what might be expected if one were to lose a limb. No doubt you might rather lose the limb than the man you love at times.
I have personally been through 2 divorces and I am here to tell you that there will come a day when you will be OK though. Of course, you want to know if that day will find out with or without your husband by your side. If your choice is to get your husband back and restore your relationship and your family then this is what I want for you and what I wish to help you with. This is my mission in life and what makes me happy… helping couples get back together.
While you will read a lot about the no contact rule and it is the great piece of advice that all the so called experts give claiming that it will guarantee that you will get your ex back, it should never be considered a golden rule. The no contact rule alone will never help you to get your husband back. It should be one aspect of your plan to get him back but sitting doing nothing will never make him feel the love, desire and passion that he needs to feel to change his mind about the divorce.
Common sense should tell you that sitting on your butt isn’t going to improve your chances of getting your husband back or help change his mind about your marriage. Just sitting there will either allow your relationship to wither or possibly worse. This is why I am continually blown away when I hear that people are told that they can get their ex back by just not contacting them. Many relationships have simply vanished into thin air as a wife abides by the no contact rule and her husband never contact them.
The pain that might come from following the no contact rule when your husband begins dating another woman after assuming that you didn’t care since you cut him out of your life and never showed any interest in getting back together would be unbearable. This is why I suggest a few clever tricks in addition to using the no contact rule if you want to get your husband to fall for you again. You might ask what I’m talking about?
Sure, cut off contact with him to the best of your ability for a while but when the time comes to contact him again, be happy, upbeat and ready to knock his socks off. Step back a bit and think about this. Do you like being around happy, positive people or people who are depressed, clingy and needing your attention? Right! People are attracted to those that are positive and upbeat and who love life. Your husband is no exception!
Of course, there are other things that you can do to enhance the no contact rule and raise your perceived value as a woman, a mate and as his partner. Leveraging such things as little psychological tricks and playing with your husbands emotions in ways that slip past his radar can speed up this whole process and actually make him start pursuing you… sometimes before you are even really ready to dance the dance known as ro-mance!
There is a really good tutorial by Matt Huston that promises to show you exactly how to push your husband’s emotional hot buttons and many women claim that it works almost too well! I’m not going to give away too many of the details but you might want to check out some reviews of this book if you’re serious about getting your husband back.
Learn more tricks in this Matt Huston Review and see what he suggests that is so revolutionary when compared to what other so called experts suggest. See if Get Him Back Forever can change your husband’s mind.