If you are one of those who believe that it was a mistake to brake-up with your ex, then you should look into the no contract rule. It may just be your answer to bringing back the relationship you once lost and with it, your ex.
The no contract rule has proven through the years to have work wonders in bringing back former lovers together again.
To successfully follow this rule, you must avoid ALL contact with your ex, no matter how hard it may seem with all the emotions eating you inside out. You might miss him or her, but in the end, you have to swallow it and take the bitter pill.
On the onset of the break-up, it might have been tempting to throw something at your ex because of your anger. The tendency with break-ups is that couples end up arguing and saying the most hurtful things at each other. Advice: this is the LAST thing you should do. When you break up, walk away and immediately start enforcing the golden rule of no contact.
If you wonder how this no contact rule is supposed to work, it’s simple. You were the cause of the anger, so to make the anger disappear, you should disappear. Once things cool down and emotions running amok settle down, your ex will be able to think clearly and logically. If your relationship was any good then you must have shared a lot of happy moments together and he or she will remember all the good things about the two of you.
A good sign of an impending make-up is when your ex starts to miss you. And miss you is what you want them to feel. The no contact rule allows for these feelings to resurface.
So, despite all the fights and arguments, your love with finally remember what made the two of you so special together and that he or she cannot bear to see you out of their lives.
Therefore, if you want your ex back, why not try the golden rule? It might require a lot of discipline for a lovelorn person like you, but it’s free. And the sooner you start following it, the sooner your ex is more than likely to end up in your front doorstep asking for another chance.
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