Relationships are frail bonds that have to be built up and maintained to keep them healthy and allow them to flourish. Unfortunately, break ups do occur, and they are nerve wracking, stressful and exasperating. If you are concerned in a relationship that breaks up, you may be thinking that you would like to get back at your ex but is this actually the best step to take? One of the most influential ways you can actually get back at your ex will not only put your ex in an interesting predicament, but it might also fix the relationship by showing your ex how critical you are and were to them. So not only are these 5 tips to get back at your ex but they are wonderful techniques for getting your ex back as well.