When you were going out with your future husband, how long did it take people to start asking you if you were engaged yet? Next, they started asking about the date of the wedding. As soon as you got pregnant, they wondered when you’d be having the baby. Then, when you had the baby, they wanted to know why all your baby weight didn’t immediately vanish. Once they are no longer pregnant, women often feel pressured to shed their baby weight as soon as possible. Having this to worry about can cause quite a bit of stress. It seems like you’re being pulled in two different directions, as you want to be sure you and your baby are getting enough nutrients, while you are also supposed to lose all that baby weight. How can you do both?